Breastfeeding Concerns
Breastfeeding can be a source of excitement, but it also brings concerns. How will it feel? Will it be difficult? Let’s explore common worries surrounding breastfeeding and provide encouragement for new mothers. I have had 3 babies in my lifetime, this will all be a personal experience and what has or hasn't worked for me. I really hope this helps!
I am going to be transparent with you, it is a bit uncomfortable, yes. With time that pain does subside, and you will start to build a tolerance. (I am not one for my nipples to be touched so this was a little more anxiety ridden than it should have been, just saying)
I suffered from chapped nipples and was so uncomfortable but there is something you can do to be more prepared. BUY ULTRAPURE LANOLIN or COCONUT OIL! This can be applied after feedings and helps soothe, protect and heal them. They have breastfeeding pads that can be bought but if you are in a pinch (panty liners work) There will be a residue that shows on clothing & that is why the covering for afterwards.
Be aware of Mastitis happening and things that you can do to help alleviate the pain.
Change Latches and holds (Explained Below& Link)
When any baby cries around expect them to ache and leak. Something about it but it sure happened to me and many moms I have spoken with. Things you will need if this is a route you wish to take!
- Breastfeeding bras (the ones where booby part can be moved) I thought a regular bra would suffice but I was wrong. There was more time wasted fiddling with the thing and more crying from my baby that it would end up with me crying alongside them. Do yourself a favor and get the breastfeeding bra.
- Breastfeeding Pads the ones that are made for it are more comfortable. The material does feel nice and absorbs a lot. (Panty Liners or Pads, depending on how much leakage will work but they are not comfortable)
My motto is that I am feeding my baby regardless, however & wherever so just be prepared about the locations that you could potentially be breastfeeding. I have a list of things that could help ease this transition for you!
- Baby Bop Pillow to help with supporting while feeding. Some of them latch, some are just curved pillows but for sure this is a god sent when you are exhausted.
- A blanket, now I was more open and did not care so much but a little blanket to cover baby while feeding. This is comfort thing so if you think you may want more privacy for feedings this is always a good option. My husband cared more than I did. To me, I was simply feeding our child.
- Find a secure spot that feels okay for you! Could be the bathroom, small office, a corner in the room or a private room.
- Anticipate Challenges: Understand that breastfeeding can be a learning experience for both mother and baby. This is sometimes the first time for moms but definitely for the new baby. Please have patience for both you and the lovely addition!
-Look up the different Breastfeeding techniques & holds (this helped a lot)
Yes, there are many different holds you can do to help make breastfeeding easier. What worked for one baby may not necessarily work on the next or the rest. Such as the football fold, the koala, the laid-back, the cross-hold, side feeding, etc. Click the link below for a more detailed and trusted site that explains further!
https://wicbreastfeeding.fns.usda.gov/5-breastfeeding-holds-try
I was completely unaware of the different ways you can feed your baby when I faced Mastitis that is when I paid more attention. Depending on the position of the baby will depend on which duct is getting emptied. If you are noticing pain on one side more than the rest, try changing the feeding position. This could alleviate some pain or could let you know that a visit or call to the Lactation Specialist is needed.
- Seek Professional Help: Consider meeting with a lactation consultant for guidance and support.
- Be Realistic: Acknowledge that each person’s breastfeeding journey is unique, so patience is essential.
- Embrace Alternatives: If breastfeeding doesn’t go as planned, know that formula feeding is a loving and valid option for your baby.
Breastfeeding is a personal choice with its own challenges. Empower yourself with information and support, knowing that your feeding choice is best for you and your baby.
